[threadjack] He didn't want reciprocation either, so I suppose it was fair in its way. He just didn't really grok the whole oral sex deal. Fortunately I'm with someone a whole lot more compatible now.[/threadjack]

And yes, there is such a thing as TMI - which is something I exploit for the gross-out factor every now and then whether it's menses or boogers. But that's not the same as "oh noes, don't talk about periods, that's GROSS!"

For that matter I'd like to thwap women who come up with cutesy names ("Aunt Flo", "the cardinal", etc) for stuff like this because they can't bring themselves to say the real words.