See, I LOVE recieving (as long as we're not talking a couple of the idiot guys I dated who thought SLOBBERING was all they needed to do. Bleck.) but I almost never give. But it's not that I dislike it or don't want to, honestly...it's a physical problem of a small jaw that HURTS LIKE HELL if I keep it open for something bigger than a skinny carrot for more than a minute. Makes the whole thing rather difficult and uncomfortable. :(