"passing is a safety issue"

Wow, yes. I forget this (as a ciswoman with androgynous tendencies) and think it's a gender binary political sort of thing, but it's not. Thanks for bringing this up. Do you mind if I add it (attributed) to the original post?

"I think the people who point at gender-non-conforming people in the street should be ashamed and not the other way around."

Definitely this.