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Me: So, I'm going to this thing this afternoon...it's sort of like a protest. It's to say that if boys want to marry boys, they can; and if girls want to marry girls, they can. Not that you have to or anything, only if you want to. Anyway...do you guys want to come with me?

Daniel: They can already do that, so what's the point?

Me: Well...no, they can't.

Daniel: They can't? Why can't they?

Me: Well...because some people are crazy. I don't really know why.

Daniel: They really can't?

Me: Some people think it's gross. And because they think it's gross, they say that no one should be allowed to do it. But I think that anyone should be able to marry who they want.

Daniel: Well, yeah. I mean, I think it's gross. I don't want to do it. But they should be able to.


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eta: Both my kids support me, but neither actually wants to go with me to City Hall. They think it sounds boring. (Dave is supportive too, but declines due to leg issues and job visibility issues.)


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Ellie, on signs: I think we should make a sign that says, "Girls can marry girls!" Would that be a good idea?

Me: Yeah! But what about the boys?

Ellie: I don't want to make one for the boys! Girls rule!

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Date: 2008-11-15 02:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pyat.livejournal.com
Excellent!

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Date: 2008-11-15 03:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyperegrine.livejournal.com
Thanks! And mmmm, pies!

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Date: 2008-11-15 02:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cargoweasel.livejournal.com
Yay! We're going too.

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Date: 2008-11-15 03:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyperegrine.livejournal.com
I hope there will be a LOT of folks. Glad you and Axiom are taking part.

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Date: 2008-11-15 02:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] beetiger.livejournal.com
We're going to our local one, so I talked to Rhys about it this morning. I said something like "I want to make sure when you grow up if you want to get married you can choose whomever you like." He said "Well, that will be a long time till then, so maybe we should just do it sooner than that."

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Date: 2008-11-15 03:19 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyperegrine.livejournal.com
Rhys is so wise beyond his years. :-)

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Date: 2008-11-15 04:09 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tracerj.livejournal.com
I think it's gross. I don't want to do it. But they should be able to.

I almost cried when I read this. Very awesome.

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Date: 2008-11-15 10:46 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyperegrine.livejournal.com
*hugs* I thought of you many times today while I was at the rally. I hope you found some peace and solidarity at the Seattle one.

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Date: 2008-11-16 04:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tracerj.livejournal.com
I did indeed. Shall post presently.

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Date: 2008-11-15 04:37 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] momentrabbit.livejournal.com
You're a great mom, btw. n.n

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Date: 2008-11-15 10:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyperegrine.livejournal.com
*blush* Thanks.

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Date: 2008-11-15 05:09 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] illuviel.livejournal.com
I'll be with you in spirit, as my lungs have decided to defect and I'm sitting up and breathing only with effort. :P

I made announcements to everyone I knew that City Hall was the site of today's protests, and was met with resounding 'yeah, and?'. :(

and

I think it's gross. I don't want to do it. But they should be able to.

Your little ones rock. Good job, you and Dave.

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Date: 2008-11-15 10:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyperegrine.livejournal.com
So sorry you're under the weather today; maybe we'll be able to participate together next time. Feel better!

(And I know how frustrating it can be to try to mobilize the troops and be met with no response. But thank you so much for your support. It means a lot to me personally. ♥)

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Date: 2008-11-15 05:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] glashund.livejournal.com
It's been said by a few folks already, but your kids are pretty awesome...suggesting, naturally, that you've been doing pretty awesome with 'em. And we already knew you were pretty awesome. <3

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Date: 2008-11-15 10:42 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyperegrine.livejournal.com
Awww...thank you. *bloop*

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Date: 2008-11-15 05:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] shaterri.livejournal.com
Woo, and hoo. *grin* You rock so hard. Go get 'em!

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Date: 2008-11-15 10:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyperegrine.livejournal.com
*giggle* I learned it from you?

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Date: 2008-11-15 05:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] postrodent.livejournal.com
Thank you Daniel, thank you I guess Ellie ;) and most of all, thank you, Peregrine. It's awesome to have allies.

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Date: 2008-11-15 10:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyperegrine.livejournal.com
I don't know...am I an ally? I'm fairly invisibly queer at this point in my life.

One of the things mentioned at the rally was the necessity for each person to be out so that we can put a face to queerness for each person, so that it's harder for discrimination to flourish within society.

I'm really having to ponder this, as a bisexual and polyamorous person in a heterosexual partnership with a heterosexual person. I don't want to hurt Dave OR to hurt others (including myself) through silence.

I'm not sure what the answer is for me personally. But I want to be clear that while I'm an ally, I'm also the B in LGBT.

(and pansexual's probably a closer descriptor, but then that further complicates things)

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Date: 2008-11-15 07:50 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jadedfox.livejournal.com
Wow... Thank you so much Peregrine, you are an incredible mother, and you are raising your kids so well! This made me so happy to read especially with some of the negativity that's hit me lately.

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Date: 2008-11-15 10:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ladyperegrine.livejournal.com
I'm glad. *hugs*

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Date: 2008-11-16 12:24 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] monkeyman.livejournal.com
:D Damn, those kids rock.

And so do you, of course. Both on your own, and by extension of the above point. :)

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Date: 2008-11-16 05:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] whitecrow0.livejournal.com
I saw a sign that said "Don't be a GAYcist!" I love that one.

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